Ugh… Cheyan I’m not sure how serious you are on using these dating apps, but trust me: Get out while you still feel good about yourself. I learned the hard way, trying frantically for about 1½ years and at the end I felt more unlikeable and insecure then ever before. I believe you’ve already been there in the past. And I could write entire essays on what’s going wrong with this method of dating, complete with references, statistics and whatever (I do my homework). It’s the people, it’s the medium, it’s the psychology behind how human interaction works. Long story short: You’ll have a better chance finding someone worthwhile in daily life. Don’t repeat the same mistakes that I did.
My sympathies. THIS is why I’m glad I’m old and in a long term relationship. I’d rather slam my head in a car door over and over than re-enter the dating scene.
John Doe says
Ugh… Cheyan I’m not sure how serious you are on using these dating apps, but trust me: Get out while you still feel good about yourself. I learned the hard way, trying frantically for about 1½ years and at the end I felt more unlikeable and insecure then ever before. I believe you’ve already been there in the past. And I could write entire essays on what’s going wrong with this method of dating, complete with references, statistics and whatever (I do my homework). It’s the people, it’s the medium, it’s the psychology behind how human interaction works. Long story short: You’ll have a better chance finding someone worthwhile in daily life. Don’t repeat the same mistakes that I did.
Dana W says
My sympathies. THIS is why I’m glad I’m old and in a long term relationship. I’d rather slam my head in a car door over and over than re-enter the dating scene.